Monday, March 29, 2010

Girls.. Be mature when u grow up..

1. Turn around faster than the tears.
This is necessary.
After 20-years-old, you must learn to bear the sadness, you must know that it will past.
Do always tell yourself, I can be brave. Do not cry in front of others.
If others saw your tears too often, they will think that your tears is not worthy.

2. You've probably did many absurd things.
But please do not feel ashamed of that. Please do not think that it is unaffordable.
After 20-years-old, this is the beginning of your new life.

3. Whoever treat you good, you have to treat them the same as well.
Interpersonal relationships will always be with reciprocity. Two-way rule. No one have the obligation to treat you good.
After 20-years-old, open your eyes bigger, whoever treat you good, remember to treat him good as well.


4. Clear of your targets and fight for it.
Girls without talent is the best?! No such bullshit. To get a good marriage, first of all, girls must have talent.
And the crux of the problem here is not to get a good marriage. It's you be well in your life.
After 20-years-old, you want to go abroad? To find a job? Or to continue your study?
After 20-years-old, it's not far for you to get involved into the community, are you ready for it?

5. Do whatever you promise yourself, take the right action on the right time, avoid indecision and lingering.
For those who are soft-hearted, you will never success.
After 20 years old, should learn to face the reality and can no longer immersed yourself in your daydreams.

6. If you are in love, please do not pay out everything.
If you do so, then what will be left for your future husband?
Girls, we must learn to treat ourselves better, do not invest everything on the so-called "potential shares".
Whenever, be careful and aware of what's on your hands.

7. Learn to be saponaceous.
After 20-years-old, nobody gonna treat you as a child and so your mistakes will never be forgiven.
Do smile to the people and things you don't like, that's what we must learn.

8. Thanks those who ever hurt you.
And then on the day of your 20th birthday, wave your hand towards them and say, I will not hate you anymore.
Leave the enmity in your first 20 years old. You have to envisage the hurt people gave when you grow up.

9. Do not follow the trend of any non-mainstream.
Might as well learn to make-up, but not sootiness makeup, is generous decent makeup.
An interviewer from a large enterprise ever told me that a girl with generous and decent make up will be given priority.
Why? Because you do not even worry about your own look, what else you worry about?
There is no ugly woman in the world, only lazy woman.

10. Slimming, simply talk about it is more than enough.
When you succeed to be slim like a bamboo, you will find that dizziness, low blood sugar and low blood pressure are following you together with a series of diseases.
May be it's include the stomach cancer as well.
After 20-years-old, you should know that you still have a long way to go and you will only be guaranteed with a healthy body.

11. For those who play sb. off against one another, do not debunk him.
Wait until he finish acting of a good show hardly.
Then only tell him that you actually know everything about his good show.
Then, smile and leave.


12. Yes, you have reached the age of getting married legally, but you need not to be get married so fast.
Maybe you're in love, you both make a solemn pledge of love to be together forever.
But you are just over 20 years old, you don't ever know how long is your lifetime.
Marriage, is not only the business among two peoples, it's the business among two families. "Be matched for marriage" said by our older generation is reasonable, it's not unreasonable feudal thinking. For the marriage, you should holding the belief of it's only once in a lifetime, so do think careful when you choose your spouse. Do treat the amativeness as amativeness. Marriage, slowly think about it.

13. Vigorous love, just leave it for the age before 20.
You are already 20 years old. Do not do some silly things that would be laughed by others.
Those the actions like not going back home at night, argue on the streets, threat people with your dead, first cry second be troubled by third hang oneself and so on.
Those crazy stuffs, those young and frivolous, we had experienced them enough.
After 20-years-old, learn to take it easy.

14. Boyfriend, don't simply find someone to be your boyfriend just because of loneliness or follow the trend.
After 20-years-old, learn to be responsible on your own life.

15. Your favorite things, do not expect someone else to buy it for you.
20 years old, regardless of whether you've played vagueness before, you have passed the age of that.
Girls have to be independence and the basic is the independence of the economy.

16. If a guy told you that he is not worthy of you, do believe him.
A guy who said himself is not worthy of you, then he will never worthy of you forever!
Cherish has nothing to do with the ability and money!

Lastly. Always ready a smile for yourself and tell yourself that "I can"!

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